sorry to hear things went like my first couple times, i could tell you stories that would have you rolling, with things not to do. i kinda think a tm is like and ole muscle car,when you learn about her, she will just keep impressing, give it some time,a voice of experience , got our first tm about 6 yrs ago, is what the dw wanted,went to mich. to get, 10 hrs both ways, went out the first few times, was so upset, i did not like at all, what it was, i did not understand it, did not know anything about the forum at that time, made the mistake and made a quick sale and went through 3 other tt ,looking for what i had already had. all to come back to a tm, i traded down 10 model yrs and am happy now as with any of them,