You do realize that (at least as is my understanding), the refill kit is simply intended to refill your Thetford from on-board plumbing directly, instead of using a bucket or the shower head, don't you? It dumps water directly into the Thetford reservoir.
In order to use this device in an attempt to make the Thetford function like a "regular" RV toilet, you would have to fill the Thetford with enough water to allow it to flush before each use. That requires about 2.5 gallons. You'd probably use 50 gallons before you ordinarily would have to empty the Thetford, and without full hookups, you have to carry that around in your blue tote.
But to answer your question directly, I have found Europe to be the place to get parts for the Thetford. It is actually made over here.....I believe in The Netherlands.
Vent kit:
http://www.bradtech.ltd.uk/cgi-bin/s...2ehtml#SID=116
I didn't see the refill kit there, but give them a call. I was just in Stafford yesterday.....
Dave